It is almost true that everyone wants to become successful in their career. But if we succeed then how we should deal with that success is a tough experience. Being successful is very important but how to make success sustainable and sustainable is the real deal, it helps us to become acutely proactive about it. There are three big enemies which are the biggest obstacle in our success process which becomes the shape of failure where we never reach our destination. In this article I will share three major enemies of success.
The first one is the comfort zone. The biggest enemy of success is the comfort zone. It is when people feel a comfort zone they imagine that they are well where they are and who they actually are. It is always said that being in a comfort zone is good but there is no self growth. If the one who wants to become successful then be ready every time for change because there is no limitation of success on which we are going to gain. We all are afraid of change as we think that if we should change ourselves that change does not become our failure. Most people have this fear. But it should be remembered that failure never comes alone, it brings a gift with it. If we ourselves want to become successful then we have to get out of our comfort zone. A great question is there which is ” Your real life starts at the end of your comfort zone.
The second enemy is learned helplessness. When people tend to believe that they cannot say anything good in their life. They are not good enough in their life because your words become reality. Learned helplessness comes with the shape of fear and failure. Yeah, it is for sure that people ignore, frustrate and tell you that you cannot do this and that, you are terrible. These guys have no chance to succeed but you merely have to listen to them not act. Never feel bashful and embarrassed because no one is like you. the more you distance yourself from these things the better you become.
The third one is lack of consistency. Most people say that we want to become successful but we can’t. Then understand that anywhere you have the lack of consistency which is not allowing you to reach your mission. Your biggest enemy does not spite about your success rather he or she has spit on your consistency. You have to select a vision and always work hard towards that mission with consistency. If you carry these things in your life then no ethics stop you from reaching your destination. Consistency plays a vital role in human life. I want to end it with a great saying which is that ” life is like a box of chocolate you never know which one you are going to have.
Ijaz Sal Muhammad
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